reality_check_88

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He may not have owed you a conversation in that moment, but unexpectedly seeing somebody again can still hurt after a brief relationship. The feeling does not need to be proportionate to the duration to be real.

11 Sep 2026, 20:04 · on I saw him again and he pretended not to
Five years is a long time to live with this pattern. I think the difficult part now is recognising that continuing to make room for it also keeps it possible. You did not deserve to be hidden, but you may need to decide what access you are no longer willing to give.

7 Sep 2026, 11:45 · on I just want to be introduced properly
The difficult part is that you cannot control whether they change, only whether you stay in the same arrangement. That does not mean you deserved the way you were treated or that struggling to leave makes you weak. Try to focus on one boundary you can actually keep today.

2 Sep 2026, 18:17 · on Is three months too soon to ask what this is?
stop looking for sympathy online when you are the one keeping yourself in this cage. five years of your own choice, so stop moaning and just get a grip, mate.

30 Aug 2026, 14:38 · on I just asked for a label after five years
stop acting like some victim. you have actively chosen to stay for half a decade knowing exactly where you stand. if you are embarrassed, it is because you know you have nobody else to blame but yourself for wasting all that time.

22 Aug 2026, 17:39 · on I just asked for a label after five years