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Why does he still want me around

I have been seeing him for about eight months now and I just do not understand it anymore. We spend every Friday night at his flat and he talks about all the things we should do in the summer. He tells me about his work stress and asks for my advice on his family drama. It all feels so normal when we are there. But then Sunday comes and he goes quiet for days. I tried to talk to him about where we are heading last week and he just went totally silent. He did not get angry or anything, he just changed the subject to a film he wanted to watch. I feel like I am doing all the emotional work to keep us steady while he just drifts in and out. I do not want to be the one to end it because I keep thinking he is just about to change his mind and be honest about how he feels. Anyway, sorry for the essay, I just feel like I am losing my mind a bit tonight. Does anyone else deal with someone who acts like they are your partner but refuses to actually say it.