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She said she needed time but just moved on
It has been four weeks since we finally called it quits after about four months of seeing each other. I am still just so angry because she kept telling me she was not ready for a relationship and that she just needed space to figure out what she wanted. I actually believed her. I thought if I stayed patient and just kept being there, she would eventually see that we were working. Last night I saw she posted a photo of her and someone new at a pub. It really stung. It is not even about the other person. It is just the fact that she told me she was not capable of being with anyone right now, yet here we are a month later and she is doing exactly what she said she could not do. I feel like such a mug for waiting around for her to be ready. I keep checking my phone to see if she has sent anything but obviously she has not. I should just block her number and get on with my life tbh. I keep trying to distract myself but I just keep thinking about the weekend we spent at her place watching films. It was so normal. Anyway, sorry for the essay, I just needed to vent this because I am really struggling to let it go.
I ended it and messaged her five days later
I keep doing this. I told her it was over on sunday because I just could not handle the waiting for a text back anymore. She just said okay. Nothing else. No fight, no trying to fix it. She just left my flat and that was that. I felt okay for like two days and then I got bored and lonely and panicked. I sent her a message on friday night just asking what she was doing. She replied instantly like nothing had happened. Now we are back to square one where we are seeing each other but nothing is official. I dont know why I did it. I hate that I feel so relieved just to have her talking to me again. I honestly dont even know what I want from her at this point. I just know I felt sick thinking she might be out with someone else. It has been almost three months of this cycle and I am so tired of my own brain. Anyway, sorry for the moan. Just needed to get this out.
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