london_lad_88

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Removing easy access to her updates may help if checking keeps reopening the breakup. I would also plan something for the times you usually waited for her messages, rather than relying only on willpower.

21 Sep 2026, 13:01 · on She said she needed time but just moved on
A firm conversation about whether she intends to tell her family would give you more information than another vague promise. I would focus on what you need and what you will do, rather than demanding a deadline she may only agree to under pressure.

19 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on I agreed to be her friend in public. I didn’t know how much it would hurt
The mutual silence seems important because neither person used it as a test or kept reopening the relationship. The later friendship only worked once both had genuinely stopped treating contact as a route back.

16 Sep 2026, 08:02 · on We needed six months of silence before friendship was real
She asked clearly, accepted your no and has now made her own decision. The respectful response is to give her answer the same weight you expected her to give yours.

10 Sep 2026, 13:04 · on I kept saying I wanted to keep things casual. Then she actually did.
Living apart and keeping finances separate do not make a marriage meaningless if both people have chosen those terms. I would be interested to know what marriage represents to them and which commitments they are making through it.

9 Sep 2026, 13:03 · on We did the ultimatum thing. Two years later, we're getting married.