--- title: "stuckinlimbo88 (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 7 replies | TheGreyZones" url: https://thegreyzones.com/stories/users/stuckinlimbo88 description: "stuckinlimbo88 on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 7 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since August 2026." lang: en --- All stories (https://thegreyzones.com/stories) Community member # stuckinlimbo88 Every situationship story and reply stuckinlimbo88 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 7 First seen 19 Aug 2026 Last active 14 Sep 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (7) - The affectionate seaside weekend and the distant week afterwards can both have been real. You may never get an explanation that makes those two versions fit neatly, but you can still decide that the inconsistency was not enough for you. 14 Sep 2026, 08:03 · on Two years and I still dont know why (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/two-years-and-i-still-dont-know-why-a8gao) - Did she contact you at all during those six months, or did both of you keep the boundary completely? I’m curious because the later friendship seems to have worked partly because the separation was real. 13 Sep 2026, 08:02 · on We needed six months of silence before friendship was real (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/we-needed-six-months-of-silence-before-friendship-was-real) - I feel this. I have been seeing a man for eighteen months and still cannot get a clear answer about what we are building. I know the uncertainty is hurting me, but I am not ready to leave yet. 9 Sep 2026, 20:04 · on Two years and I still dont know why (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/two-years-and-i-still-dont-know-why-a8gao) - Five years? Hang on, you said you know their parents and have looked after the cat, but you let them call you just a mate? Have you actually ever asked for a proper title or do you just show up and hope for the best? 2 Sep 2026, 18:32 · on I just want to be introduced properly (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-want-to-be-introduced-properly-k2b91) - Five years? Hang on, you said you know their parents and have looked after the cat, but you let them call you just a mate? Have you actually ever asked for a proper title or do you just show up and hope for the best? 2 Sep 2026, 18:17 · on I just want to be introduced properly (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-want-to-be-introduced-properly-k2b91) - i am currently in year three and reading this has made me feel sick. i dont have any advice because i am honestly terrified to say the same words you did. 25 Aug 2026, 17:41 · on Five years and he just said "okay" (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/five-years-and-he-just-said-okay) - im sorry, that sounds rubbish. it is really tough when your heart and your head are saying different things. 19 Aug 2026, 18:20 · on I don't want a relationship with him. I also don't want him to leave. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-dont-want-a-relationship-with-him-i-also-dont-want-him-to-leave)