--- title: "softheart_ldn (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 2 replies | TheGreyZones" description: "softheart_ldn on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 2 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since August 2026." lang: en json-ld: --- [TheGrey Zones](/) Understand Assessments Programmes [Live Sessions](/live-sessions)[Stories](/stories)[Insights](/insights) [Log in](/login) [All stories](/stories) Community member # softheart\_ldn Every situationship story and reply softheart\_ldn has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 2 First seen 23 Aug 2026 Last active 2 Sep 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (2) - Their behaviour may have been hurtful, but the most useful question is whether the relationship they are offering is one you genuinely want. You do not need to condemn them in order to decide it is not enough for you. 2 Sep 2026, 07:55 · on [Five years and I was left to recover alone](/stories/five-years-and-i-was-left-to-recover-alone-84j7i) - this made me cry honestly. i spent three years telling myself i was just busy, but really i was just waiting for a feeling that never came. it feels like you stole the words right out of my head. thank you for sharing this. 23 Aug 2026, 00:27 · on [I was the one saying I wasn't ready. I think ending it was kinder than becoming his girlfriend.](/stories/not-later-after-all) TheGrey Zones For the almost-relationships. Because "seeing where it goes" shouldn't be the destination. Understand - [What is a situationship?](/what-is-a-situationship) - [The Five Situationship Profiles](/the-five-profiles) - [The 7 stages of a situationship](/the-stages-of-a-situationship) - [All assessments](/assessments) - [Not ready, or just comfortable?](/not-ready-or-just-comfortable) - [Am I in a situationship? Quiz](/am-i-in-a-situationship) Move forward - [What do you actually want?](/what-do-you-actually-want) - [Six Weeks to Clarity](/six-weeks-to-clarity) - [The No Contact Programme](/no-contact) - [Live sessions](/live-sessions) - [Situationship stories](/stories)