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# soft\_landing\_99

Every situationship story and reply soft\_landing\_99 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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16 Aug 2026

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## Stories (0)

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## Replies (2)

-   It sounds as though this situation has worn you down. That does not make you foolish or weak, but it may help to focus on the choices available to you now and the boundary you can realistically keep.
    
    24 Aug 2026, 07:48 · on [I gave the ultimatum and now I am stuck](/stories/i-gave-the-ultimatum-and-now-i-am-stuck-zkiu6)
    
-   ignore the one above, they are just being mean. you sound like a normal person who wants connection. its really hard when the other person keeps things so surface level. dont let them make you feel like you asked for the moon.
    
    16 Aug 2026, 06:40 · on [Did I ruin the weekend or did I just ask a normal question?](/stories/did-i-ruin-the-weekend-or-did-i-just-ask-a-normal-question)
    

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