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# realist\_sc

Every situationship story and reply realist\_sc has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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31 Aug 2026

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2 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (3)

-   The difficult part is that you cannot control whether they change, only whether you stay in the same arrangement. That does not mean you deserved the way you were treated or that struggling to leave makes you weak. Try to focus on one boundary you can actually keep today.
    
    2 Sep 2026, 18:32 · on [Is three months too soon to ask what this is?](/stories/is-three-months-too-soon-to-ask-what-this-is)
    
-   The difficult part is that you cannot control whether they change, only whether you stay in the same arrangement. That does not mean you deserved the way you were treated or that struggling to leave makes you weak. Try to focus on one boundary you can actually keep today.
    
    2 Sep 2026, 18:17 · on [Is three months too soon to ask what this is?](/stories/is-three-months-too-soon-to-ask-what-this-is)
    
-   Honestly you werent a couple though. You were just a convenience for him. Stop romanticising someone who told you straight up he didnt want you. Its embarrassing for you.
    
    31 Aug 2026, 02:51 · on [I broke it off and still miss him](/stories/i-broke-it-off-and-still-miss-him-zme11)
    

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