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# not_buying_it_88

Every situationship story and reply not_buying_it_88 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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## Replies (1)

- Two years is a long time to continue when you knew you could not offer the relationship he wanted. I can understand why he may feel hurt. Taking responsibility for delaying the answer would be more useful than treating either of you as entirely at fault.
  9 Sep 2026, 08:02 · on I was the one saying I wasn't ready. I think ending it was kinder than becoming his girlfriend. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/not-later-after-all)