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# lostinlondon88

Every situationship story and reply lostinlondon88 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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16 Aug 2026

Last active

20 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (8)

- The weekly pattern sounds settled even though the relationship does not. He may genuinely like what they have, but she needs to decide whether Friday nights are enough if nothing changes.
  20 Sep 2026, 20:01 · on Why does he still want me around (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/why-does-he-still-want-me-around-eunx5)
- Four dates can still be disappointing when the connection felt promising. Asking early meant the sadness arrived before months of hoping that her move or view of long distance would change.
  16 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on I asked the awkward question on date four (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-asked-the-awkward-question-on-date-four)
- Friday nights were part of the relationship routine, so it makes sense that they feel especially empty now. Planning something specific for that time may be kinder than expecting yourself simply not to miss him.
  14 Sep 2026, 20:01 · on I broke it off and still miss him (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-broke-it-off-and-still-miss-him-zme11)
- Eight months of Friday nights and future talk is significant. His silence when you asked where this was going is also information, even if it was not the clear answer you deserved.
  14 Sep 2026, 13:02 · on Why does he still want me around (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/why-does-he-still-want-me-around-eunx5)
- im sorry, that sounds rubbish. honestly, you deserve way better than someone who acts like a total ghost.
  5 Sep 2026, 07:24 · on I am still just sitting here waiting (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-am-still-just-sitting-here-waiting-pkkjb)
- Im sorry, that sounds rubbish. Honestly, give yourself a break for being human.
  2 Sep 2026, 18:17 · on I ended it and messaged them back (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-ended-it-and-messaged-them-back-3znni)
- im sorry, that sounds proper rubbish. you honestly deserve so much better than being kept in limbo.
  25 Aug 2026, 07:29 · on Is three months too soon to ask what this is? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/is-three-months-too-soon-to-ask-what-this-is)
- honestly mate i have been there and its just awful. dont be too hard on yourself for feeling this way, you were just being decent and giving someone the benefit of the doubt. try to get out of their flat and get some fresh air. seriously, dont let them make you feel small for having a heart.
  16 Aug 2026, 19:54 · on Am I allowed to be angry when I agreed to casual? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/am-i-allowed-to-be-angry-when-i-agreed-to-casual)