--- title: "lostinclouds (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 5 replies | TheGreyZones" url: https://thegreyzones.com/stories/users/lostinclouds description: "lostinclouds on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 5 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since August 2026." lang: en --- All stories (https://thegreyzones.com/stories) Community member # lostinclouds Every situationship story and reply lostinclouds has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 5 First seen 30 Aug 2026 Last active 18 Sep 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (5) - Seeing the photo so soon after she said she needed space would hurt, even if it does not tell you everything about the new connection. Give yourself time to absorb the mismatch between what you heard and what happened. 18 Sep 2026, 08:01 · on She said she needed time but just moved on (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/she-said-she-needed-time-but-just-moved-on-0va65) - I feel this. I am facing a similar decision and keep hoping my answer will change, although deep down I suspect it will not. Knowing that does not make saying it any easier. 10 Sep 2026, 20:01 · on I loved her. I still didn’t want the future she wanted (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-loved-her-i-still-didnt-want-the-future-she-wanted) - i read this and just burst into tears on the train. i have been doing this to someone for eighteen months, telling them i just need a bit more time to heal after my breakup. reading your realization hit me so hard. i think i am just scared to be alone again. 7 Sep 2026, 01:26 · on I was the one saying I wasn't ready. I think ending it was kinder than becoming his girlfriend. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/not-later-after-all) - i am sat here crying reading this. it hits so hard. i used to apologise for just existing near them, basically. it takes so much out of you when you have to shrink yourself to stop them from running away. you deserve someone who gets excited about a holiday with you. 31 Aug 2026, 01:11 · on Did I ruin the weekend or did I just ask a normal question? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/did-i-ruin-the-weekend-or-did-i-just-ask-a-normal-question) - i feel this so hard. honestly it is just so painful when u keep waiting for a lightbulb moment that just never comes. u sound like such a good person and its not ur fault u want something solid, just dont lose urself trying to fix someone who is happy leaving u in limbo. 30 Aug 2026, 23:06 · on We're basically a couple until I call us one (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/were-basically-a-couple-until-i-call-us-one)