--- title: "lost_in_the_fog (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 9 replies | TheGreyZones" url: https://thegreyzones.com/stories/users/lost_in_the_fog description: "lost_in_the_fog on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 9 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since August 2026." lang: en --- All stories (https://thegreyzones.com/stories) Community member # lost_in_the_fog Every situationship story and reply lost_in_the_fog has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 9 First seen 14 Aug 2026 Last active 23 Sep 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (9) - I spent a long time hoping I would suddenly want parenthood because I loved my partner. Admitting that love and the future were pointing in different directions was painful, but it was not a failure to love. 23 Sep 2026, 13:05 · on I loved her. I still didn’t want the future she wanted (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-loved-her-i-still-didnt-want-the-future-she-wanted) - god i feel this. sitting here doing the exact same thing right now. its misery. 31 Aug 2026, 13:27 · on Am I allowed to be angry when I agreed to casual? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/am-i-allowed-to-be-angry-when-i-agreed-to-casual) - honestly mate dont be so hard on yourself. i think we all have those moments where we cave and its not because were weak its just cause we miss the comfort. its really tough breakin those habits. you tried and thats a win even if it feels like a fail right now. 30 Aug 2026, 10:00 · on I ended it and messaged them back (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-ended-it-and-messaged-them-back-3znni) - i am sat here in tears too. i did exactly what you did, gave the speech, walked out, and then i caved at 3am. honestly, dont do it. it feels like a hole now but at least you still have your pride, which is more than i can say for myself. 24 Aug 2026, 00:58 · on I gave the ultimatum and now I am stuck (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-gave-the-ultimatum-and-now-i-am-stuck-zkiu6) - same. nine months and i feel exactly like this. 19 Aug 2026, 12:24 · on We never agreed to be exclusive, so do I even get to be hurt? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/we-never-agreed-to-be-exclusive-so-do-i-even-get-to-be-hurt) - reading this made me cry. it is exactly what i did for four years until he walked out. i thought i was just independent, but really i was just terrified of being vulnerable. it leaves a massive hole in your life when they finally wake up. 17 Aug 2026, 22:27 · on I don't want a relationship with him. I also don't want him to leave. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-dont-want-a-relationship-with-him-i-also-dont-want-him-to-leave) - i am absolutely sobbing reading this. i wasted six years with a man who treated my emotions like background noise. it hurts so much because you invested your whole heart into a ghost. please, just keep the phone face down. 17 Aug 2026, 01:55 · on Five years and he just said "okay" (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/five-years-and-he-just-said-okay) - This honestly made me cry. I did the exact same thing for four years and I pushed him away until he finally left. Now I am totally alone and it is ten times worse than the commitment ever was. Please do not make my mistake. 14 Aug 2026, 15:56 · on I don't want a relationship with him. I also don't want him to leave. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-dont-want-a-relationship-with-him-i-also-dont-want-him-to-leave) - I can understand why the other person may feel hurt by the uncertainty. That does not make either of you a bad person, but continuing without a clear and honest conversation is likely to cause more pain. 14 Aug 2026, 15:52 · on She introduced me as her friend after two years (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/she-introduced-me-as-her-friend-after-two-years)