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# london_tea_spiller

Every situationship story and reply london_tea_spiller has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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First seen

26 Aug 2026

Last active

11 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (3)

- Had you told him before that summer conversation that you were not seeing anybody else? I am wondering whether exclusivity in practice may have suggested a direction you had never actually agreed.
  11 Sep 2026, 20:04 · on I was honest about not wanting more, just not honest enough (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-was-honest-about-not-wanting-more-just-not-honest-enough)
- honestly just curious, did he ever have a specific reason for not letting you meet his mates? feel like being hidden is such a massive red flag at 39.
  7 Sep 2026, 07:06 · on I thought I needed a label. I actually needed him to show up in my real life. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-thought-i-needed-a-label-i-actually-needed-him-to-show-up-in-my-real-life)
- wait, you said you know their parents well. do their parents actually know you are together or do they think you are just a mate too?
  26 Aug 2026, 03:18 · on I just want to be introduced properly (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-want-to-be-introduced-properly-k2b91)