--- title: "kindly_noted (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 5 replies | TheGreyZones" url: https://thegreyzones.com/stories/users/kindly_noted description: "kindly_noted on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 5 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since September 2026." lang: en --- All stories (https://thegreyzones.com/stories) Community member # kindly_noted Every situationship story and reply kindly_noted has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 5 First seen 1 Sep 2026 Last active 20 Sep 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (5) - It is striking how long they were arguing with different meanings of commitment. Once they separated partnership from cohabitation and merged finances, the decision became much more concrete. 20 Sep 2026, 13:02 · on I was the one keeping it vague until he stopped waiting (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-was-the-one-keeping-it-vague-until-he-stopped-waiting) - Defining what commitment actually meant seems to have changed the whole conversation. Separate homes and separate finances left much more room than the all-or-nothing version you had imagined. 19 Sep 2026, 13:01 · on I was the one keeping it vague until he stopped waiting (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-was-the-one-keeping-it-vague-until-he-stopped-waiting) - Im sorry, that sounds rubbish. Hope you find a way to move on soon. 2 Sep 2026, 18:32 · on I just asked for a label after five years (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-asked-for-a-label-after-five-years-20a55) - Im sorry, that sounds rubbish. Hope you find a way to move on soon. 2 Sep 2026, 18:17 · on I just asked for a label after five years (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-asked-for-a-label-after-five-years-20a55) - im sorry, that sounds rubbish. hope you are doing alright now. 1 Sep 2026, 13:44 · on We stopped trying to turn a good relationship into the wrong future (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/we-stopped-trying-to-turn-a-good-relationship-into-the-wrong-future)