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title: "just_a_lurker (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 2 replies | TheGreyZones"
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# just_a_lurker

Every situationship story and reply just_a_lurker has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

Stories

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Replies

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First seen

15 Aug 2026

Last active

9 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (2)

- She offered exclusivity when she wanted it and accepted your answer. Now that her position has changed, I think you need to extend the same respect to her no. The discomfort may still tell you something important about the expectations you had placed on the arrangement.
  9 Sep 2026, 13:03 · on I kept saying I wanted to keep things casual. Then she actually did. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-kept-saying-i-wanted-to-keep-things-casual-then-she-actually-did)
- im sorry, that sounds rubbish. honestly, you deserve someone who actually wants to be there with you.
  15 Aug 2026, 08:00 · on We're basically a couple until I call us one (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/were-basically-a-couple-until-i-call-us-one)