--- title: "ghosted_again_88 (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 8 replies | TheGreyZones" url: https://thegreyzones.com/stories/users/ghosted_again_88 description: "ghosted_again_88 on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 8 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since August 2026." lang: en --- All stories (https://thegreyzones.com/stories) Community member # ghosted_again_88 Every situationship story and reply ghosted_again_88 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 8 First seen 14 Aug 2026 Last active 22 Sep 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (8) - The Friday routine sounds intimate, but the silence after you asked about direction matters more than whether the evenings look like dates. Changing the subject was still a response, even if it was not a clear one. 22 Sep 2026, 13:05 · on Why does he still want me around (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/why-does-he-still-want-me-around-eunx5) - Putting the phone away can interrupt the next message, but the difficult part is planning for what arrives afterwards. The loneliness and familiar relief of contact both need somewhere else to go. 18 Sep 2026, 13:02 · on I ended it and messaged them back (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-ended-it-and-messaged-them-back-3znni) - Keeping work communication inside work channels is such a clear boundary. It removes the emotional loophole without pretending that colleagues can disappear from each other’s professional lives. 15 Sep 2026, 13:01 · on No contact wasn’t possible because we work together (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/no-contact-wasnt-possible-because-we-work-together) - im sorry, that sounds rubbish. you really didnt deserve to be treated like that after so long. 1 Sep 2026, 06:41 · on I just want to be introduced to their friends (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-want-to-be-introduced-to-their-friends-6tycd) - Nine months is plenty of time for someone to show their true colours. If they act like planning a holiday is an attack on their freedom then they are a total wanker. Walk away before you lose more of your self respect. 31 Aug 2026, 04:15 · on Did I ruin the weekend or did I just ask a normal question? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/did-i-ruin-the-weekend-or-did-i-just-ask-a-normal-question) - five years of your life gone, honestly just pack your bags and leave. 25 Aug 2026, 13:50 · on I just want to be introduced properly (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-just-want-to-be-introduced-properly-k2b91) - I can understand why the other person may feel hurt by the uncertainty. That does not make either of you a bad person, but continuing without a clear and honest conversation is likely to cause more pain. 17 Aug 2026, 06:01 · on Am I allowed to be angry when I agreed to casual? (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/am-i-allowed-to-be-angry-when-i-agreed-to-casual) - Can I just ask, when they went quiet and stared at the wall, did they actually look guilty or were they just completely blank? Sounds like they checked out ages ago. 14 Aug 2026, 18:30 · on We're basically a couple until I call us one (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/were-basically-a-couple-until-i-call-us-one)