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# get_real_mate

Every situationship story and reply get_real_mate has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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19 Sep 2026

Last active

23 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (2)

- A financial calculation could help if the dispute were about affordability. The larger gap here is that he wants a companion for long periods of travel while she wants to continue the business she built.
  23 Sep 2026, 20:03 · on He wants a retirement partner. I still have twelve years of work (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/he-wants-a-retirement-partner-i-still-have-twelve-years-of-work)
- He deserves a clear answer about whether living together is part of the future, but that answer does not have to be yes. The important thing is not to let him assume a move is simply delayed if you already know you do not want it.
  19 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on I want him. I don’t want him moving in with my son (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-want-him-i-dont-want-him-moving-in-with-my-son)