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# RuthM

Every situationship story and reply RuthM has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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## Replies (1)

-   This is such a useful distinction. My ex was perfectly happy to use the boyfriend label but I still only saw him when it suited his schedule and barely knew anyone in his life. The title made me feel secure for about a week and then I realised nothing underneath it had changed.
    
    2 Sep 2026, 18:17 · on [I thought I needed a label. I actually needed him to show up in my real life.](/stories/i-thought-i-needed-a-label-i-actually-needed-him-to-show-up-in-my-real-life)
    

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