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# RuthActually

Every situationship story and reply RuthActually has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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-   I don’t read this as her being worn down. She came back with her own limits — separate homes, separate finances — and the poster accepted them. People are allowed to discover that the word “commitment” was hiding several different questions. The important bit is whether the eventual agreement is genuinely wanted by both of them.
    
    23 Aug 2026, 07:17 · on [We did the ultimatum thing. Two years later, we're getting married.](/stories/we-did-the-ultimatum-thing-two-years-later-getting-married)
    

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