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title: "PublicCostsToo (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 1 reply | TheGreyZones"
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# PublicCostsToo

Every situationship story and reply PublicCostsToo has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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10 Sep 2026

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10 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (1)

- Being held under the table made the difference painfully visible: you were treated as a partner in private and required to be only a colleague in the same room. Avoiding family events sounds like a boundary around that experience, not a demand that she change her family situation.
  10 Sep 2026, 07:08 · on I agreed to be her friend in public. I didn’t know how much it would hurt (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-agreed-to-be-her-friend-in-public)