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# ObviousWasTheGap

Every situationship story and reply ObviousWasTheGap has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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First seen

12 Sep 2026

Last active

12 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (1)

- “We had both filled those blanks with our own version of obvious” is the key line. You had agreed on sexual boundaries but not on shared time, safety updates or changed plans. Those are relationship agreements too, whatever structure you choose.
  12 Sep 2026, 07:10 · on We’re open, but apparently that didn’t mean the same thing to both of us (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/we-are-open-but-that-did-not-mean-the-same-thing)